Porn sex Vs Real sex

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I love porn.I will never shy away from saying that. Porn movies are the most positive movies.No murder, no war, no racism, no language barrier, good cooperation and coordination, lots of love and a very happy ending for everyone. And the best part is, no matter which point you start watching, you will understand the story.

But I guess that is the problem with mainstream porn.It is acted, it is never something natural. Porn is the fantasy. it’s sex with editing, makeup and sound tracks. Watching porn as a virgin will fuck up your mind and instill unrealistic expectations.

In porn, there is no love. Its just two or more people fucking the shit out of each other.You dont see laughter, people going on water breaks, girls dont have lingerie marks, there is no peeing or showering after sex, no banging of heads or biting each other in attempt to kiss, no shyness and arguments ending in “you ain’t getting any!”, there is no real orgasms, struggling to take off clothes, unhooking bras or struggling to put on condoms (mostly its just raw sex), there is no communication; guiding your partner as how and where to touch, no putting in the time for her pleasure and arousal, no falling off the bed and you wont ever see instances of erectile dysfunction or vaginismus.

Let me just be the first to tell you that SIZE DOES NOT ALWAYS MATTER!

There is no girl walking on this earth who wants her uterus yanked out. We all just want to have a good time and cum.Its how you handle your equipment that matters. I’ve seen girls flee from men who have big dicks.Like literally run for their lives, sometimes naked and screaming.All these girls screaming 9 inches…Bitch, have you seen 9 inches?? Why would you want to experience that pain and discomfort, and risk your life and insides in the process.Can’t be me.

Porn has put so much pressure on young men. It has y’all comparing sizes like a bunch of pussies, making you less of a man just because your dick is not a certain length, curve and size. It has young men popping all types of enlargement pills to get to that extra inch. How about you care about your health first because Lord knows what they put on those herbal concortions. Out here in the real world, not every guy has 9 inches.And it is totally ok.Most women (I included) do not want a guy who is too endowed (keyword: TOO). I care about my vagina and I have not yet given birth. Although there are girls who prefer big sizes, most girls really dont care about size. Can you take me to mars, make me cum and sore is where its at. Dicks comes in all manner of size and length and colour, and they all have a place…Which is inside a vagina.

As much as porn has given men pressure, women also have to deal with a lot of insecurities sorrounding their bodies. So, hear me out, vaginas are not pink, especially not for African women. Just like the male genitalia, the female genitalia also comes in different sizes, colour and shape. That is why for some women it is easier to handle big dicks, while for some it is an extreme sport. Some are bony, others have full lips, some have larger protruding clits, others are miniature. Some are pink, others brown, others dark but they all serve the same purpose. Each vagina is special and equally powerful. As long as it is not smelly or infected, dont let porn get to you.

Also, there is no woman walking on this earth with no stretch marks.Nobody has flawless skin, except in porn. Every girl in porn has perky big boobs that dont fall, a big ass and a well toned stomach. You realise that its mostly silicon, right? Real boobs must obey the law of gravity. They will hang loose in opposite direction during missionary and clap and flap till they hurt in doggy style. In reality, all bodies are flawed.

Alafu can we stop with this obsession of squirting😑. Not all women squirt. Your girl may just be peeing in your bed to keep up with your demands.

Sex is emotional. There is heated passion and chemistry, biology and other sciences involved. There are no fake moans and groans. In porn, most orgasms are faked. The male orgasm protocol is take out the dick and spray cum all over your partner’s ass or face.In reality, no man is able to pull out that quick. He usually cums inside, with an awkward and funny cum face. Alafu has anyone ever noticed how that cum shoots like in a straight line and is usually ALOT! Kwani what do these people eat yawa?? Also, no woman wants you to cum in her eye or hair. None! The female orgasm protocol is unwarranted screaming accompanied with a large gushing of water, or whichever liquid that is that shoots our like water from a hose pipe. I dont know about other women but when I cum my thighs do that thing where they shake uncontrollably, my voice disappears and I feel like my spirit is leaving my body. Literally feels like an exorcism. But anyway, everyone is different.

In reality, most women dont orgasm from vaginal penetration alone.For a woman to reach an orgasm, it takes a lot of stimulation and patience on the man’s side.Stimulate her clitoris, nipples and other sensitive spots. Porn never shows this, so a lot of men have learnt a woman’s orgasm is not important and that foreplay is not really a priority.

Despite what you see in porn, most women require a conversation and lube before anal sex.Dont just ram your manhood in someone’s asshole without consent. That shit is painful.Porn makes it look easy because it is scripted. You see a guy moving from the vagina opening to anal and back again to vagina with so much ease but dont try that at home.

The truth is, some sexual positions are dangerous and overrated. Doggy, cow girl and woman on top being on the top list of the dangerous positions if not well executed. In doggy, if penetration is done forcefully at the wrong angle, there may be vaginal tearing.If positioning is also wrong, the penis goes into the anus forcefully and unexpected, resulting in anal tearing as well. With woman on top and reverse cow girl, it more more dangerous because of the weight of the woman. Dont just drop all your weight on a little dick, it will literally break. Take a moment and imagine the pain. Cow girl has been declared as the most dangerous sex position ever. Most cases result in penile fractures. Your dick will literally crack. The thought of that pain is enough motivation for you to slow down and take it easy.

Also, dont go around choking people’s daughters because you saw it in porn and it looked sexy. Breath play is not something to experiment on. It can be fatal in worst cases, yaani you will die.Then what will you tell God? Imagine you die while fornicating. But seriously, some of these kinks are dangerous if handled wrongly.Do your research first. That Christian Grey lifestyle first of all is only sexy on Tv, and because he is rich. Now, imagine going over to a guy’s bedsitter and getting surprised by being tied up, whipped and subjected to all manner of weird fetishes. I know you will scream sexual harassment, right?

And sex is not always spontaneous. Most people just dont fuck anywhere, anytime like animals.And no, in real life most people dont get to fuck their step parents or siblings, delivery boy, gateman, neighbour, teacher, student, boss etc. We may fantasize, but not always act on our feelings. And thats where porn comes in. Your neighbour will request you to fix their kitchen sink and you start getting ideas.Get your mind out of the gutter 😆😆

By now I’m pretty sure you get the point. Porn is fake but we cant stop watching it because it represents our fantasies. Real sex is sometimes awkward and gross; sweaty, smelly, you can fart, queff, pee or poop during anal (hii kitu sio mchezo😂😂), get tired while riding, cum too quick, sleep during the act, thinking of someone else, your vagina will dry up and it will get painful, morning breath can make you commit murder and sometimes rising to the occasion can be a huge problem. Porn does not show you these awkward things, but they happen.And it perfectly ok.

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